It has been so long since I've blogged! That's because I've been busy. Dating, dating and more dating. Dating for us big girls is a challenge for some. Yet, for me, it's fun and exciting. It's like a holiday, you never know what you will find in that box.
I have been dating older, younger and my same age men. They are pretty much the same other than age. They all claim to want someone who is honest, real and not into games. Yet, they all play games, lie and are not real.
There are many truths to dating. Do you know what you want in a relationship? Marriage? Sex buddy? Friendship? If you don't really know, how will they know what you want. Believe me, men are not mind readers. As much as we would like them to be they are not.
I'm still in the looking for a friend, with benefits that could maybe develop into something more. I haven't found him yet but I am having so much fun looking.
Following are a few facts that I have learned:
Fact #1: If they say they are 6' they are actually 5'8"
Fact #2: If they say they want honesty, don't be, their ego's can't take it, no matter how macho they appear to be
Fact #3: If they say they don't want a woman that plays games, just know they are playing a game with you within the first meeting.
Fact #4: Be honest to yourself as to what you want first and then you can handle them
Fact #5: Be honest about your size. I always show full body pictures of myself. If I can't love me, why should they...right?
Fact #6: Remember you are beautiful no matter what size you are. Size 10 or a size 30....do you and remember there is someone out there looking for you..
